Surfing for balance

Over the last several months I have found myself sitting behind a desk more than I have at any other time in my life. Between writing, reading as preparation and research for writing, and continuing to build my businesses, my time in the seated position as well as my time inside, has multiplied beyond what I’d like. Despite twenty years of combat athletics I don’t think my back and body have ever been as sore as they are after eight hours of “office mode”. How so many professionals manage to do that for forty plus hours a week, I do not know. What I do know is that it’s not healthy. My eyes become blurry and my back becomes stiff. I needed a solution.

Surfing is an amazingly healthy option, one that fulfills my self-imposed prescription perfectly. However, there are a few key obstacles that prevent that from being a regular feature for me. The first is the 90-minute commute each way to the ocean. The second is that I am quite possibly the worst surfer on planet earth.

I had almost given up on finding anything close to surfing, and then I saw paddle boarding. My first introduction was the documentary called Surfwise. There are a few scenes with one of the sons of Dr. Paskowitz moving around the ocean on a paddleboard, and it looked like the perfect fit. It is fresh or salt water compatible, it doesn’t require waves (although you can surf), and it looked a whole lot easier than regular surfing.

A few weeks ago I had my first chance to give stand up paddle boarding (SUP) a try, and found out that I was almost correct, except for one critical piece. It’s not as easy as it looks. My son Liam and I took a two-hour lesson on the Willamette River here in Portland Oregon. After a few basic instructions we pushed off shore and stood up. My son took to it almost immediately, falling off just a couple times before he acclimated to the board and began shooting around the river like Silver Surfer. The benefits of youth. As for myself, I fell off at least twenty times within the first half hour. Looks easy? Maybe. Is it easy? No.

While I engaged in repeated dips into the Willamette, the instructor, Matt, would patiently coach me on my technique using methods that were all too familiar. His advice was as follows:

“You’re thinking too much.”

“Just relax and keep breathing.”

“Find your base and breath.”

“You’re still over thinking it.”

“Try and relax and use your core.”

“Bend your knees, it’s all about posture.”

And finally back to, “You’re thinking too much, relax.”

If you’re one of my students, or one of the thousands of people who’ve taken a class or seminar with me at some point in your life, then I am sure you must be laughing to yourself, at least a little bit. It was as if Matt had attended one of my Jiu-Jitsu workshops, memorized the sum total of my usual advice as well as the flow it is often presented in, and read it back to be verbatim. It was equal parts humbling and reassuring, humbling to be on the other end of the conversation, and reassuring to affirm that the fundamentals of performance transcend specific sports.

After about an hour my feet began to get incredibly sore. I am not sure I have ever felt anything like that before, little muscles spread throughout that region which tend to go unnoticed most of the time, now screaming for a break. I mentioned this in passing to my wife later that evening, and she said she had experienced that before in her yoga practice. It’s a unique sensation that occurs when you’re intensely focused on balancing, each muscle in the foot contracting and releasing in a fluid effort to find, and maintain, that perfectly stabilized posture.

Matt corrected my paddling. Like most everyone else, I was using way too much upper body. The trick, he said, was to fix your arms in position, use your core rather than your limbs, and let the posture do the work for you. Sound familiar? Paddling, he said, was a practice, one where he tried to find ways in which he could get maximum gains, from minimum effort. It was a constant search for more efficiency. He had managed to give what I consider to be the perfect description of proper Jiu-Jitsu, in just a few sentences that were related to the mechanics of paddling; again, the fundamental principles transcending the sport.

After about an hour I found myself able to follow Matt’s excellent coaching advice. I relaxed, feet and all, kept breathing, found my base and posture on the board, and was able to move around without falling off. It’s beautiful on that part of the Willamette, to look back on the city of Portland from the vantage point of mid river, float alongside geese, and move with the wind and water, is just as relaxing and peaceful as you might imagine it to be.

Afterwards I felt refreshed rather than sore. My mind was revived, ready to attack the challenges of the pen in a better, more energized state.

The entire experience brought to light a few things for me. First, the Greeks had it right when it came to our need for a balance between the life of the mind, and the building of the body. Plato was after all, a wrestler. The software of a self-programming computer is indissoluble from its hardware. Exercise absent contemplation and continuing education, or contemplation and intellectual effort absent exercise, doesn’t seem gratifying in quite the same way; at least as far as I am concerned.

Secondly, all professional coaches, regardless of sport, should take a lesson from a good instructor in an activity they are completely unfamiliar with. Aside from being humbling, it also brings to light those core fundamentals of performance which meliorate all athletics; and that knowledge is priceless.

Finally, even when we do manage the mind-body properly, we can still suffer from a lack of communion with nature. I don’t think there is anything particularly mysterious about this evolutionary need, and certainly nothing supernatural. Our brains evolved in ancestors which have been on this spinning rock for over 7 million years. How much of that time was spent behind a desk?

Consider this, when we are in our buildings and in our cities, things produced by thought constantly surround us. If you’re in a good city and a good building, then you may be lucky enough to at least surround yourself by some creative and inspiring thought. If you’re one of those unlucky enough to be trapped in the urban sprawl of corporate suburbia, then you may find yourself surrounded instead by the lowest common denominator of thought; in either case, that unnatural surrounding, combined with the 24/7 bombardment of advertisement we all face, is bound to make you sick after a while. The solution is simple, we need to get outside.

Martin Amis once said, “The first thing that distinguishes a writer is that he is most alive when alone.”  I think about that quote a lot. Writing is above all else, a solitary pursuit. But that doesn’t mean it has to be an unhealthy one. Finding occasional sanctuary in nature and maintaining the body as we engage the mind, will only sharpen the pen to even greater precision. And it makes sitting behind this desk a hell of a lot more bearable.

The MMA – Skepticism connection

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It has been a busy summer to say the least. After teaching across Canada I went to Ireland and then back to the UK. Great trips, great friends, and a reminder of how fortunate I am. This was followed by the weekend at the Mundials (Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu world championships), where SBG managed to bring home a pile of medals, including several golds, and a new world champion from my own Portland Gym. All in all, lets just say life is pretty tremendous.

Between my above mentioned schedule, and the continuing work on my book, it’s been tough to find much time to write on other topics. I have however been involved with a few things, including a podcast I did two weeks ago on the topic of MMA, skepticism and faith. The show was Strange Frequencies, and also featured physicist Lawrence Krauss, his interview on a Universe from ‘nothing’ is excellent.
You can listen to the podcast here

MMA, Skepticism & Faith with Matt Thornton
To new readers or people unfamiliar with the parallels that exist between traditional martial arts and religion/superstition, these two subjects might seem a bit unrelated. However, as those who’ve investigated this topic know, with the exception of course of religion, and ‘perhaps’ alternative medicine, few sub cultures remain as embedded with irrationality.

The last twenty years of my career have in one way or another been about the promotion of skepticism, critical thinking and the application of reason within the martial arts, and I don’t think this has been in vein. Most of this work was done with the intentional introduction of a one word meme which, and I say this with some satisfaction, has taken hold worldwide. That word, as most of you probably know, is Aliveness. If someone really ‘gets’ what that means, then they can easily discern between what is fantasy, and what will align itself with reality once someone else actually begins fully resisting. Like critical thinking itself, it isn’t the conclusion, or the technique that defines whether someone can actually pull off a movement against a non-cooperating opponent, but the process one used to arrive at that conclusion, in this case the training method, that makes all the difference in the world.

That practical skill set, whether it’s learned within the martial arts or a critical thinking class, can easily translate into all the other areas of our lives. We can learn to engage reason and rationality to improve the well being of ourselves, and the world at large.
Occasionally I still get hit with questions like, “why bother explaining Aliveness at all, people will either get it or they won’t?”As well as, “Since the advent of MMA everyone ‘gets’ Alive training now don’t they?” Let me briefly address both.

For those who feel that explaining Aliveness at all is a waste of time because those that fall for the traditional fantasy based martial arts, thinking them efficient, are either stupid or lazy, and therefore deserving of their fate, let me just say I don’t share that opinion.
About four times a year I guest lecture at the local university in a critical thinking class. This class covers everything from faith healers, astrology, alternative medicine, and fantasy based martial arts. You can probably guess which topic I am there to discuss. We start with various clips taken from people like George Dillman (famous for his “no touch” knockouts), Aikido, yellow bamboo kung fu, Silat, and other related delusions; and then follow with a discussion on the distinction between Alive combat sports and these type of dead pattern fantasy arts. As a skeptic I find that sharing critical thinking skills on these topics is both rewarding, and important; and anyone that thinks distinguishing between reality and these sorts of superstitions is”common sense”, just hasn’t spent enough time looking at the data, or talking to the average student.

As for the second comment, that everyone now “gets it” and therefore the need for discussion about these old training methods is moot, let me point out that the assumption that it is easy for those of us who’ve spent a lifetime in combat sports to understand what Aliveness really means, is simply that, an assumption. The reality is that the comments made, questions asked and classes taught by many of these people demonstrate that this isn’t the nature of the situation. I still hear comments like “boxers skip rope”, or “baseball players have batting practice”, as if these comments relate in any way to what is meant, or not meant by Aliveness, and this is coming from people within combat sports. For those of you familiar with what Alive training means, these comments make it self-evident that even within our own functional arts, many people still don’t understand what the conversation, or epistemology is actually about yet.
*If you are unfamiliar with Alive training I’d suggest starting here:

http://aliveness101.blogspot.com/movie Sandy Wexler 2017 download

Finally, lets not forget that although training in functional martial arts is certainly on the rise thanks in large part to the sport of MMA, the Gracies and others, we are still in the minority. The superstition of fantasy based martial arts is still very much the majority.

So is Aliveness common, or always understood even within the combat athletics field, no, but that doesn’t, by itself, explain why it’s worth bothering with any form of critical thinking, or advocacy of reason.

Let me explain why I bother with that.

Because standing up for reason is important. The parallels between the promotion of reason within the martial arts and the promotion of reason as it relates to religion or other faith based topics, are nearly endless. One clear example, is the nature of the criticism that tends to get thrown at you. Anytime you tell the truth in plain spoken, non obfuscated language, about anything, martial arts or otherwise, you will end up offending some people. It’s just part of the process. But what is important to realize is that these people are not offended because they think what we are saying is factually untrue, they are offended because we are saying something that is factually true, which they don’t think we should say. And that is a very different matter all together.
Speaking up about rationality is principal. People deserverespect, compassion and understanding. We need to strive to befully present, truly listening, if we want them to ever really hear us. However, these same values should not be applied to ideas.People deserve respect, ideas do not. When the philosophy of tolerance is applied to ideas themselves, the result is toxic. We create an environment where reason cannot be used to differentiate between good and bad concepts. If we refuse to admit that our preferences do not determine reality the we create a climate where reality cannot be improved. This is why we should never be timid when it comes to articulating why a bad idea is just that, bad. Because while blunt and authentic dialog might be offensive to some, stupid and dangerous ideas can be fatal to all of us.

If you have a taste for authenticity, if truth in the fact sense of that word is valuable to you, if you, like me, want to have your beliefs align with actuality as much as possible, if you’ve outgrown the desire for comforting delusion, if you find the polite but insincere distasteful at this point in your life, then feel free to pick up the banner of a free thinker; because reality is way cooler than any fairytale we can make up about it.

And that’s why the promotion of skepticism, critical thinking and reason is important, regardless of the field you first apply it in.

Enjoy the podcast.